5 Warning Signs He Is Probably Wasting Your Time

Lack of Life Goals Having goals and planning ahead are the key to a stable life and satisfying relationship. The majority of people enter relationships with an idea of what they want so both partners should set mutually agreed goals for the relationship. You should also pay attention to his personal goals; if he doesn’t […]

Friends with Benefits (By Default)

“Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something. They’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go […]

Low Self Esteem & Relationships

When a person has low self-esteem in a relationship this creates an unbalanced and unhealthy interaction based deference or anxiety. Those who suffer from low self-esteem often defer to others who appear to be more assertive, powerful or intelligent. Falling in love with a man you consider your role model sets up an abnormal and […]

Healing Emotional Baggage

“Until you make the unconscious conscious it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” Carl Jung (1875 -1961) Psychiatrist & Psychotherapist Emotional baggage is a common expression that generally refers to unresolved emotional issues that are detrimental to self and others. The term ‘baggage’ is a metaphor for carrying around a heavy […]

The Importance of Healthy Personal Boundaries

One of the biggest mistakes men and women make in the Dating Game is lacking clear personal boundaries. Your personal boundaries define how you interact with others, and how you allow others to interact with you. Lacking effective boundaries leaves you vulnerable to being used and abused by predators who just want to satisfy their […]

The Process of Self-Discovery (PSD)

Television, radio and the internet constantly advertise ‘quick fixes’ for a wide variety of problems but these promises rarely produce any worthwhile or lasting results. We live in an era where many people expect to be offered short cuts or instant solutions to their problems but this is not a realistic approach to personal growth. […]

Discovering His Mindset

So you have been dating a guy for a while and believe he could be ‘The One’ but feel unsure about how to proceed.  Asking him the right questions can help you discover important information about his history, personal circumstances, potential problems, character flaws or habits that may not be unacceptable; it just doesn’t make […]

Relationships – A Spiritual Perspective

‘We live in a Universe in which there are laws, just as there is a law of gravity. If you fall of a building it doesn’t matter if you’re a good person or a bad person, you’re going to hit the ground.’ – Michael Bernard Beckwith   The term ‘Spiritual Laws’ can conjure up stereotypical images […]

Childhood Emotional Programming

When you review your relationship history it is important to understand that being attracted to certain people is not destiny, fate, and coincidence, accidental or influenced by good or bad luck. Your Emotional Programming will be strongly influenced by your experiences during your childhood years and this leads you to form certain beliefs and attitudes […]

The Codependent Relationship

The codependent mindset often compels people to become involved with people’s lives far beyond healthy limits, placing the desires and needs of others before their own priorities. They attempt to provide and control everything within the relationship without addressing their own needs or desires with their feelings of self worth based solely on helping others. […]