Dating a Control Freak 

“For a control freak, love and the desire to control others are synonymous. Once they lose control over the object of their desire, hostility takes over in full force.” –  Natalya Vorobyova The Control Freak can be insidious and very subtle to the extent that you may not notice what is happening until its too late, […]

The Highly Dangerous Covert Narcissist

The Covert Narcissist can be the most dangerous of narcissistic personality type. They strive on convincingly pretending to be a person they are not, obtaining what they want by creating a false persona knowing full well if others discovered their true character, a normal person would reject them with horror and disgust. Survival for this […]

Seven BIG Relationship Mistakes!

Mistake 1: Compromising Standards, Values and Requirements ‘Commitment in a relationship needs to be based on a commitment to myself – to Love, honor, obey and cherish my own being.’ – Shakti Gawain, Living in the Light * When you first meet someone you will naturally share your beliefs and values with them to discover […]

The Toxic Narcissist Dating Cycle, The Discard & Their Flying Monkeys

“Narcissists are consumed with maintaining a shallow false self to others. They’re emotionally crippled souls that are addicted to attention. Because of this they use a multitude of games, in order to receive adoration. Sadly, they are the most ungodly of God’s creations because they don’t show remorse for their actions, do not take steps […]

Myth: Men Are Not Emotional

“The emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it…” ― Nicholas Sparks, At First Sight Perhaps the biggest myth about men is we don’t feel or have any great emotional depth, but studies have revealed men often experience exactly the same emotions as women but how they express themselves is often […]

Men Abused By Women In Relationships

Across the world, there is a stereotype that domestic violence and abuse only involves a man abusing a woman. Women are perceived to be the weaker, gentler sex, while men are seen as being stronger and having regular tendencies regarding abuse. While men generally commit more abusive behaviours within intimate relationships, females also perpetrate abuse […]

Relationship Toxic Flaws

Abusive Personality Types & Dangerously Toxic Flaws “You don’t have to wait for someone to treat you bad repeatedly. All it takes is once, and if they get away with it that once, if they know they can treat you like that, then it sets the pattern for the future.” – Jane Green, Bookends None of us are […]

Relationships & Cluster B Personality Disorders: Look Out For The Red Flags!’

“We do not have to be mental health professionals to identify the traits of the possible sociopaths among us.” – P.A. Speers, Type 1 Sociopath – When Difficult People Are More Than Just Difficult People A Personality Disorder is a Mental Health condition that affects the way a person thinks, behaves, and relates to other people. There are various personality disorders and […]

Male Victims & Survivors of Relationship Abuse

“One’s dignity may be assaulted, vandalized and cruelly mocked, but it can never be taken away unless it is surrendered.” – Michael J. Fox, Actor From physical abuse to coercive control, around 700,000 victims of domestic violence are men – one in three of all victims. But campaigners say men find it especially hard to get […]

Relationship Red Flag: Mr. ‘Sensitive’

“I love being in love, but I also love other things, like not being jealous, overly sensitive, or needy.” – Dark Jar Tin Zoo, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91 It may seem strange to think having a relationship with a man with a tendency to be sensitive could be a major problem but Mr. Sensitive […]